Co-dependency, and other issues...

So for the last couple of weeks I haven't really been hanging out with/talking to Arin as much. I thought that we had decided to just be friends, and so that's what I was working on doing. Work has been getting busy, everyone is back from the holidays, all talking up time in my life. Arin has been accusing me of ignoring him, and I've tried to explain that I'm not, just that I'm trying to balance everything that I have going on in my life. I decided to move him out of my "Top 8" on MySpace, for those of you not familiar, users can select 8 people from their friends list and make them their "Top 8". I didn't delete him, just moved him out of the Top 8. So here's the message I get from him:

"Look, I don't know why you're being an ass about this. Taking me off your Top 8 was a nice touch tho. I got your message...loud and clear.

Now Matthew, please just consider the reasons why things didn't work out between us:

1) I invited you to a party in which you hooked up with someone else after I left AFTER you flirted in front of my fucking face. Do the future guys a favor and just admit you ARE the random hook up type. Make sure they don't invite you to parties.

2) Your circle of friends makes it impossible for anyone who wants to love you, to do so. Again, warn the future boys about that ahead of time. Be cautious of the ones who try to bend over backwards to please people who will never be happy or never trust you to have your own identity without them.

Those are them. Had nothing to do with anything I did wrong so stop treating me the way you are by this whole ignoring thing. It's really not classy. "

And then he deleted me from his friends list.

WTF!?